The How You Breathe Is How You Live Podcast
How You Breathe Is How You Live is a podcast about the profound connection between breath, self-awareness, full potential, transformation and transcendence.
Hosted by Jake Parent, a breathwork expert and self-actualization coach, Co-hosted by Riley and Josh, this show explores breathwork and plant ceremonies shapes your mind, emotions, and life.
Through insightful conversations, science-backed wisdom, and a playful yet deep approach, you’ll discover how to harness your breath for more clarity, confidence, and fulfillment.
Whether you’re a high-performing entrepreneur, a seeker of inner peace, or just curious about unlocking your potential, this podcast will help you breathe better—and live better.
Episodes

Jun 4, 2025
Jun 4, 2025
30 min
This is a conversation about the intricacies and transformative potential of breath work. It delves into what breath work involves and the expectations people have when they experience it—ranging from skepticism to anticipating a psychedelic-like journey.
The discussion highlights the different forms of breath work, focusing particularly on conscious connected breathing. It explains the physical, emotional, and spiritual effects, such as body vibration, emotional release, and even transcendent states.
We also contrast the gentle experience of a sound bath with the more intense and sometimes surprising outcomes of breath work.
Personal anecdotes and examples from breath work sessions underscore its potential for profound personal insight and trauma healing, emphasizing the importance of setting intentions and the benefits of sharing experiences in a group setting.

May 28, 2025
May 28, 2025
34 min
Jake presents a detailed discussion on the meaning and purpose of life through the lenses of breathwork, psychedelics, and personal experiences. He begins by exploring life purpose and argues that it remains constant throughout one's life, though the methods to fulfill it may change. Personal anecdotes highlight how seemingly small actions in childhood can reveal one's life purpose as an adult.
He discusses the distinction between life’s purpose and its meaning, suggesting that life is inherently meaningless but driven by the quest to master different domains. The importance of breathwork, particularly conscious connected breathing, in fostering self-awareness and healing is emphasized.
He further dives into the impact of emotional and mental health on physical wellness, advocating for healing journeys to resolve deep-seated issues like shame, guilt, and grief. The conversation also touches upon the significance of authentic relationships, the role of contribution in personal fulfillment, and the necessity of celebrating wins in companionship. Lastly, practical tips and expectations for engaging in breathwork sessions are shared.

May 22, 2025
May 22, 2025
38 min
This episode covers Jake's discovery of breathwork facilitated by various guides. Initially skeptical about its effectiveness, he first encounters limited success but later has a profound mystical experience under more directive guidance.
They explore the history and methods of breathwork, particularly focusing on the development of holotropic breathwork by Stanislav Groff and the significant role of music in facilitating breathwork sessions. The story details the step-by-step growth of their own breathwork practice, from private sessions to hosting large groups, overcoming numerous logistical and business challenges including relocating studios multiple times due to various circumstances.
He highlights his unique approach to breathwork facilitation, emphasizing the importance of music as a narrative tool and rejecting unnecessary mysticism or rigid structures in favor of accessibility and effectiveness.

May 14, 2025
May 14, 2025
33 min
This episode starts with struggling through meditation, a transformative ayahuasca experience, and the subsequent profound changes in life. Jake initially disciplined to a fault, had difficulty meditating, but an ayahuasca ceremony sparked significant spiritual experiences, including conversations with God and dealing with deep-seated trauma.
The journey included bringing friends into similar healing experiences, navigating their reactions, and ultimately finding a path to inner peace.
Jake’s ceremonies involved laugh-filled moments, intense emotional and physical releases, and a resolution of lifelong anger.

May 7, 2025
May 7, 2025
32 min
The beginning of the story of how it all began in 2017 when he was struggling with life post-divorce. Professionally successful but personally distressed, he sought different methods to improve his life with no success until his friend Chaos introduced him to Ayahuasca. The narrative includes their adventurous road trip to Cabo San Lucas, participating in a sweat lodge and Ayahuasca ceremony, and experiencing a profound spiritual and psychological journey.
The episode concludes with the narrator deciding to quit his job as advised by his divine vision during the Ayahuasca experience, marking the beginning of a new chapter in his life.
00:00 Introduction: Life Struggles and Frustration
01:12 Failed Attempts at Finding Relief
02:38 Meeting Chaos and the Shaman
04:22 The Journey to Cabo San Lucas
06:54 Sweat Lodge Experience
08:57 Ayahuasca Ceremony Begins
14:21 The Experience Begins
14:54 The Face Seizures
15:48 Visions of Past Lives
18:32 The Divine Conversation
20:14 The Command to Quit
26:01 The Group Share
27:26 The Toad Venom Experience
30:08 The Aftermath and Reflection
31:21 Quitting the Job







